For instance?
Service jobs are some of the most demanding jobs there are. Take this order, handle that complaint, get the food out to that table. One party is arriving, another is calling for a reservation, a guest needs change for a hundred-euro note, someone calls in sick, then a bus full of hungry travellers pulls up to the door unannounced. And on top of it, you have to create a good atmosphere every night, like on a show stage. The work is much more complex than it’s perceived to be.
You’re speaking from experience.
I started at 14, doing an internship as a school pupil, cutting lettuce in the cellar at a Maredo steakhouse. Then I washed dishes for a year and literally worked my way up – that was on the ground floor. (Grins.) After that, I worked at the bar, and then as a waitress. So I learned quite a lot about myself very early – what I was good at, what I enjoyed.
So would you encourage your daughter to get a restaurant job?
Absolutely. At least to try it out. I think it would be hard to name another occupational field where you can learn so much about yourself and, at the same time, about other people. Can I deal with guests well, with this speedy interaction? If you find out that you’d rather be sitting at the computer, we offer the fitting challenges for that too. (Winks.) Your first employer is often decisive for the path you take later in life. A lot of bosses have no idea how much influence they have.
You don’t just run five restaurants – you also advise other restaurateurs and entrepreneurs, especially in matters of personnel. Is there a cardinal error that employers commonly make?
Don’t forget: managing people is the supreme discipline. As a restaurateur, you’re often chef, CFO, purchaser, personnel manager and more, all in one. You can’t play every role equally well. What’s important is to reflect on your own strengths and weaknesses and to keep developing – for example by getting coaching. But more generally, too, we need a cultural shift towards greater self-reflection.